I've been doing accurate readings for the past couple of days then the next minute I carnt do them no more.
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so annoyed
Auras- Member
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so annoyed
I'm somewhat very annoyed.
I've been doing accurate readings for the past couple of days then the next minute I carnt do them no more.
I've been doing accurate readings for the past couple of days then the next minute I carnt do them no more.
eyeopen- Member
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Re: so annoyed
Why whats wrong? Bad reading?
Auras- Member
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Re: so annoyed
No, just feeling frustrated when doing readings.
innerlight- Elite
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Perhaps you are trying too hard, trying too do too much, do it too soon, that you are blocking yourself..
It's also not uncommon in development for an individual to have a gift, and then lose a gift to allow another gift to come in.
It's also not uncommon in development for an individual to have a gift, and then lose a gift to allow another gift to come in.
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This happened to me too going along fine than BAM it really knocks the confidence but perhaps that's why it happens, to keep our feet on the ground, many many experienced mediums have experienced this don't worry, don't try too hard, the journey of mediumship can be a rollercoaster, I often think spirits are testing our mettle
Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.
Auras- Member
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I was doing some women a reading.....
I felt a spirit came in for her, it was a angry one, and because it was angry I felt it and made me to become very frustrated and I just went on a mad one lol. Then I told it to leave.
I felt a spirit came in for her, it was a angry one, and because it was angry I felt it and made me to become very frustrated and I just went on a mad one lol. Then I told it to leave.
SpiritVoices- Member
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Re: so annoyed
Listen to Grandma.....
This happens to everyone. The best of mediums can go downhill. I have seen mediums apologise on the platforms in spiritualist churches for not being able to contact spirit. Besides that,you sound as if you are tired and restless so settle down,lovy. They will be back in the near future......
This happens to everyone. The best of mediums can go downhill. I have seen mediums apologise on the platforms in spiritualist churches for not being able to contact spirit. Besides that,you sound as if you are tired and restless so settle down,lovy. They will be back in the near future......
Auras- Member
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MornIng grandma..
Am getting my intuition screaming at me saying "listen" I've got nothing to listen to?
Am getting my intuition screaming at me saying "listen" I've got nothing to listen to?
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Re: so annoyed
Two of the many things an accomplished medium needs to know is how to exercise control of their emotions and how to deal with disruptive discarnates. I wonder what your sitters thought about your reactions?Auras wrote:I was doing some women a reading.....
I felt a spirit came in for her, it was a angry one, and because it was angry I felt it and made me to become very frustrated and I just went on a mad one lol. Then I told it to leave.
Maybe now you will accept that your development has a way to go or will you just get angry at me for mentioning this?
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Am going to be straight to you, I get a bad vibe of you. Am not going to debate with you this time.
Why would I get angry? I only got angry because the spirit was?
Why would I get angry? I only got angry because the spirit was?
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Listen to Mac.....
He is giving you straight forward advice.. No frills. He is correct.
He is giving you straight forward advice.. No frills. He is correct.
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He is right about the first part. But the second part he wrote, he took it over the top.
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You'll get used to him.....going off site now before I get thrown off....
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Haha xD. Have a great day.
mac- Member
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Only a short while ago you were angry because you felt your age was a concern for me even though I'd just explained why it wasn't - take a look back at what you wrote.Auras wrote:Am going to be straight to you, I get a bad vibe of you. Am not going to debate with you this time.
Why would I get angry? I only got angry because the spirit was?
Your response now about debating with me suggests that you're not all you appear to be. If you genuinely wanted to do your best for others you might consider listening to suggestions about how that might better be achieved.
Perhaps you feel 'bad vibes' from others simply because those others have a different stance?
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Mac, I'm going to avoid you because I carnt even speak to you, because each time I do, you seem to push my buttons some how.
Somewhat, you always have something to say like you're always want last word. Also, it seems to me that you think you know everything and you get a bit frustrated if you're proved wrong.
I may be 15, but am a bright young person.
Somewhat, you always have something to say like you're always want last word. Also, it seems to me that you think you know everything and you get a bit frustrated if you're proved wrong.
I may be 15, but am a bright young person.
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I didn't say you weren't bright but continuing to blow your own trumpet doesn't invalidate my observations and as for having something to say, thinking I know everything, then isn't that a classic case of the pot calling the frying pan black? I expect we're equally guilty of wanting to make our own points but thus far you're just attacking me rather than what I'm writing......Auras wrote:Mac, I'm going to avoid you because I carnt even speak to you, because each time I do, you seem to push my buttons some how.
Somewhat, you always have something to say like you're always want last word. Also, it seems to me that you think you know everything and you get a bit frustrated if you're proved wrong.
I may be 15, but am a bright young person.
If you're so reactive towards someone you can't even see, unwilling or unable to respond to points I make, then my earlier remarks have even more significance I suggest. I am pretty confident you will before long be facing people who are actually hostile to what you do and say rather than someone like myself who's a long-time Spiritualist and for whom this subject is a familiar and uncontroversial subject.
Or is there something else you're not telling us?
eyeopen- Member
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Auras and Mac, firstly I would like to thank you two for the lessons youve taught me.
Auras I picked up on Macs post, he has a strong way of saying what he thinks, but I think he is trying to help you, lol. Maybe in a harsh way but "Mac, I'm going to avoid you because I carnt even speak to you, because each time I do, you seem to push my buttons some how."
Do you see my point?
I wont lie im know one to talk, Im going threw similar situations myself, I have always been one for Justice, right over wrong, been against people who abuse their powers etc. Whatever they may be, however as we are all learning we should try help eachother.
But sometimes its hard to tell whats what because every one sees things differently.
I think one thing we are sure to learn, is that you need to be able to let go, 2 we need to be able to fail, so we dont hurt ourselves too much because we wont always be able to win or get what we want. An 3 we need to learn to get on with life regardless so that our line of work doesnt affect us.
But you do have time on your hands. Which is a good thing, an depending on whom you talk to about mediumship the most who you learn from and how you see yourself compared to those, you might feel as though your not going fast, but maybe this is your time to learn and grow?
The funny thing is I should take my own advice too, lol.
Auras I picked up on Macs post, he has a strong way of saying what he thinks, but I think he is trying to help you, lol. Maybe in a harsh way but "Mac, I'm going to avoid you because I carnt even speak to you, because each time I do, you seem to push my buttons some how."
Do you see my point?
I wont lie im know one to talk, Im going threw similar situations myself, I have always been one for Justice, right over wrong, been against people who abuse their powers etc. Whatever they may be, however as we are all learning we should try help eachother.
But sometimes its hard to tell whats what because every one sees things differently.
I think one thing we are sure to learn, is that you need to be able to let go, 2 we need to be able to fail, so we dont hurt ourselves too much because we wont always be able to win or get what we want. An 3 we need to learn to get on with life regardless so that our line of work doesnt affect us.
But you do have time on your hands. Which is a good thing, an depending on whom you talk to about mediumship the most who you learn from and how you see yourself compared to those, you might feel as though your not going fast, but maybe this is your time to learn and grow?
The funny thing is I should take my own advice too, lol.
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I think Mac is also trying to help you Aura............and with that, I also think Mac could add a wee bit of compassion too.
ps....I believe Mac is trying to add more compassion now
ps....I believe Mac is trying to add more compassion now
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Well, doesn't like he is trying to help.
If you look at other posts he's acts like a 5 year old.
If you look at other posts he's acts like a 5 year old.
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no, I wouldnt say acting like a 5 year old.....it was "humor" posted at your expense......which is not ignorant....
A great man is one who can, at times...............laugh at himself.............
There are 5 emotions...........when reacting to a situation....I try to address all of them before making a statement
A great man is one who can, at times...............laugh at himself.............
There are 5 emotions...........when reacting to a situation....I try to address all of them before making a statement
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Auras didnt leave, lol.
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I realise why you have more posts than me, even though you only been here a short time, lol.