Being me is quite easy, firstly you have to be very comfortable in your own skin, so that you dont really care about others opinions or about their personal opinions on everything, in other words you just dont care!..full stop, you just dont give a "tinkers cuss" about anything or anyone, that includes immediate family, and friends.
Now that may sound harsh but its for your own benefit, for once you get used to being free from the "ties that bind" then and only then can you progress forward, always forward, never looking back, only onward, forever onward towards some goal in some far off place, a place gigpdo can only dream about but knowing full well he will get there!
So what would others do once they realise that to get ahead you have to virtually be celibate, or if married then lead a single life inside your marriage, well gigpdo does not have that problem because i am single, you may think that being Christmas that is sort of a lonely way to spend the "festive" season?..but gigpdo does not have that problem because he does not really care anyway, whats the point then?..well the point is that to get ahead you have to let go of certain things, things that you are very attached to, but are you really attached to these things, these great loves, these great so called "soulmates"..and all the material things that go with that life choice!..notice i did not use the word lifestyle.. well there is nothing "stylish" about it, it's just a choice gigpdo has made!..and here i leave it, why?. because i am tired, my fingers are aching, my elbows and shoulders too, and my neck as well!
Lets see what comments i attract eh!