Relationship readings?

How do any card readers amongst us feel and handle it, when you get a client who wants you to tell them if they should go out with so and so, or if a relationship is going to work or not, or if their other half is cheating?

9 times out of 10, the spirit who comes thru to inform the client throws that question in the can and jumps straight to more important matters. the only time a spirit has ever entertained that question when i have read for someone was when the clients relationship was dangerous or unhealthy and there was an eminent risk.

Sorry Carolyn i've only just found your reply here, is this when you do mediumship readings?

Violet wrote:How do any card readers amongst us feel and handle it, when you get a client who wants you to tell them if they should go out with so and so, or if a relationship is going to work or not, or if their other half is cheating?

hi V

it is a very basic topic in readings, as you probably knows. i really don't like the part of giving information about a person who is not in the room and didn't give him or her consent for the reading. this i try to avoid as much as possible.
i also do not give predictions or try not to, but be more "what to do and how to do" orientated, meaning will try to give as much information to the person so he or she can make up their minds, will try to help them understand what is needed to be done in order to achieve their dream or goal.
yes, sometimes i see a very definitive and clear outcomes- i do my best to break the news kindly.


S

I am a great beleiver that one's life should continue as it was meant to.
Not twisted around to suit us.

Joanie wrote:I am a great beleiver that one's life should continue as it was meant to.
Not twisted around to suit us.

no free will then?

S

Violet wrote:How do any card readers amongst us feel and handle it, when you get a client who wants you to tell them if they should go out with so and so, or if a relationship is going to work or not, or if their other half is cheating?

Hello I surrender to the HIGER power that comes to me. To let the hands do the words for me as I know that then "ME" is not there. I am not making judgement calls and the words are going to be kind and with the greatest compassions. If I see it not going to work I know that I will NOT say that I will have OPTIONS there or HINTS to insigts there is all. As nothing be forsure.

NO one gave me and me mate any HOPE and 30 year's later WE are one.


Lynn

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Joanie wrote:I am a great beleiver that one's life should continue as it was meant to.
Not twisted around to suit us.

no free will then?
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Yes,I think within reason. I think we are ment to meet certain people in our lives,whether a relationship developes is up to us and them. Sometimes we ourselves decide to cut short a friendship and sometimes the other person.
That is the free will we are given,
Joanie

Violet wrote:Sorry Carolyn i've only just found your reply here, is this when you do mediumship readings?

Yes. Its easier for me to channel a certain person by holding an object that was familiar to them, or a photograph, but there have been times when nothing was necessary, and the message is strong and clear.