Just a little wonder...

My uncle killed himself in 2009 after about 20/30 years of depression...We weren't close whatsoever but I feel pretty shoddy that when he came over I'd stay upstairs due to my low confidence levels!

What do you think I can do to sort this? I'm a little scared about 'seeing' him but I am wondering what he feels now? xoxo

I'm unsure about this as well so if this isn't really what happens - i.e their carry over their thoughts then please let me know :)

I am sure your uncle understands now. We see and understand events more clearly I should imagine in spirit than in physical life.



Joanie

Oh I hope so! He was a nice man just I never knew him properly and felt awkward around him which is bad of me but there we are. We have a yellow rose in the garden for him and I look at it often xxxxx thank you :)

I had an uncle like that,always strange to me. Always a bit in awe of him....he was a school teacher and rather strict.

Then one day,he mentioned spiritualism and asked me if I knew anything about it.
he taught me a lot and thats when my interest sprang up.

I think with most people you have to find a mutual interest.
That set the friendship off.

I agree with Joanie he would understand if not then, then certainly now, please don't beat yourself up about this

That's good Joanne! When he die I started a blog and did what I truly wanted to do. I had a few years thinking about commuting suicide myself but when he did it I knew he was 'happy' now and I saw the effect on my family and it made me love them more xxxxxxx

And thank you violet xxxx :)

You're welcome,Stephanie.

We all come across those in our lives. Some we feel good with and some friendships just don't work out.
Mostly reasons are as the above,some we just don't meld with. Others start off good and but end for a reason. The true friendships are those that stay for ever.
They're meant to be that way. Nothing will end a good friendship.



Joanie

Well,I've had a great evening out with a very good friend....
Dinner and a bottle of wine so off I trot up the 'wooden hill' as my gran used to say.....

Night all,sleep tight all.



Joanie xx

I completely agree I had a crap diet, drank, smoked, didn't move now I eat well (try too still struggle) walk, yoga meditate (need to get into it more) and I am actually feeling ather grateful and blessed every day has good points.

I am very thankful for everyone here, very sweet!!!

Glad you had. A good evening :) I do think sme of my school friends will drop off at some point but we shall see xxx
Sleep well! No doubt ill be back on here tomorrow with more questions lol!