Secrets staying secret?

I wonder if sometimes people put a wall up when going for a reading hoping that the psychic can't 'see' certain things, (card readers and such) and they are so scared of being 'found out' they effectively block the reading with their fear.

I do know card readers who have picked up on things such as affairs and legal wrong doings, but is it wise to tell people their secrets, a few readers i've spoken to (no names mentioned I hasten to add,) have picked up on affairs but rather than blurting that out they've suggested gently to their client that perhaps they and their partner would benefit from talking and such.
What do you think, what would you do?

[quote="Violet"]I wonder if sometimes people put a wall up when going for a reading hoping that the psychic can't 'see' certain things, (card readers and such) and they are so scared of being 'found out' they effectively block the reading with their fear.7


I think we all do at times without even knowing it. I do out self protections for one trying to read me as I never know whom might well be with me. I would not want to pass along unwillingly a spirit or have one get a flash of what I might well be working with or on. Some is pretty graphic.

I know some get a very surface reading on me and some find they can not read me at all. I know when I came to SF there were some there that were very good "readers" and I feel maybe I at first scared some as I could not be read. Yet I seemed to know so very much. I let one in the door to me Soul and I still cherrish the reading he did for me on me. Too I totally opened to be read so that I was trusted for whom I be.





I do know card readers who have picked up on things such as affairs and legal wrong doings, but is it wise to tell people their secrets, a few readers i've spoken to (no names mentioned I hasten to add,) have picked up on affairs but rather than blurting that out they've suggested gently to their client that perhaps they and their partner would benefit from talking and such.
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I have picked up on things I keep to ME I go on the feeling that I get if it serves one's higher good to share it or not. If it serves to open a wound more or bring in great sorrows I find a way to go around it so they might SEE it there but I have not said it. Many times I get back simply thanks I know that place and leave it there.

There are times when its BEST not to share for the protection of self and family what dark secrets other's have. Too I know WELL first hand how reporting it to someone does nothing as one is not credible. That one hurts. I look at it that we all have life lessons and some are not going to be easy one's but I am there to GUIDE not lead anothers life.

I had that come up with a dear friend he asked me to "read" as situation for him. I did got the Knight that means motion and change. I shared that too I got the reason for motion and change I kept that with me. When he and I talked it out and he came to the decission that I saw I told him I knew the outcome. He was so mad at me for not sharing til I explained I was there to GUIDE and to listen, the work needed done by HIM. He then realized I was right as he grew a TON from working it all out himself. Grew up some more.


I be told its a LIE when one holds things back in a reading I say its TRUST in self that keeps it back as we have lessons to learn or we would never grow.


One may know of a crime but as one can not take the stand or find evidence one has to embrace that it will one day have justice.


Lynn

I know someone who does aura readings and was trying to 'read' someone one day.
They became very exasperated and said to the sitter 'You are blocking me' which knowing the sitter,I I fully believed.
Now I had a card reading the other day by a very good reader and what came out was I had a very good platonic relationship with someone who was a soul mate. Which is true. I consider it nothing more than that.
Then I was told,the relationship would become more than just good friends.
I asked how she picked that up and I was told I was very open to reading,not like some folks who deliberately close themselves off and make reading very hard for the reader.

I find a way to go around it so they might SEE it there but I have not said it.

Hi Lynn, I think this is a good way

Many times I get back simply thanks I know that place and leave it there.

i've had this too, it's not for us to know really.

I be told its a LIE when one holds things back in a reading

hmm... that's a tricky one i'll think more on that.

Hi Joanie, you can usually tell who is open to being read and who is not

I agree,Violet. Very much.
I don't do readings of any sort but received a very good one myself recently.

Doesn't it lift you when you get a good one

This reading was especially good,about a soul mate.
Quite surprised me.