Loving your Spirit Guide?

Violet wrote:Hi Lee, great to hear about your guide and the pictures, they sound lovely, i'm sorry to hear you're ill and I hope it is man flu and not swine flu, get better soon.

PEACE wrote:Just latley ive been realy moved by my spirit guide ive been led to a postcard copy of an old photo of a zuni govner that was last year and this year we had a street perfomance by some native amricans and i didnt have the money to by the cd but when i got home my husband gave it to me and that was a surprise as hes one to hold onto his money and not as he says waste it,yesturday i was in a charity shop and found a piece of art work from america by you guesed it the zuni people using sand fom around the area hows that ,it really touched my heart chakra love and lightxxx

Violet wrote:I imagine you would feel some kind of love for a spirit guide especially if you have a close bond with them and are communicating regularly with them, at very least you'd have respect for them and trust them.
Do you think, or do you know of anyone who feels a romantic type of love for their guide, do you think it's even possible? Is it just people getting carried away, or could it be that a guide becomes the only reliable trustworthy and loving being in someone's life, especially if someone is lonely or in a bad relationship and depends on their guide more and more? I shouldn't think it would ever be reciprocated.

I know there is no physical body to love, but you do hear of things like astral sex, (that's a whole other thread.)

What are your thoughts on this?

sparkly wrote:

hello all,

i don't think it would a guide that would have sex with a person. it would seem a breech of contract for a guide to have sex with a charge.
as a kid i felt a lot of company around me, but i never used the labels of guides, guardian angels etc, even though i was taught to pray to the guardian angel.
now i try to remember to thank them, and to pass on my thanks to any i have had that are now not with me.
recently my friend sent me one of those silly? emails about the various centres that angels operate from, and there wa this one which was not at all busy with a sssad angel...it was the thankyou area.
whether it wassss crap or not, i decided right away to go light a candle in my kitchen. every time i went into the kitchen i said my thankyous.
the next night, next to my head, between my temple and my ear wass a bright light and a connection that looked something like when et phones home, or the sparks generated by welding. it was very nice.
i'm not sure if there was a connection or not, to my thankyou candle.

Violet wrote:I imagine you would feel some kind of love for a spirit guide especially if you have a close bond with them and are communicating regularly with them, at very least you'd have respect for them and trust them.
I have two Guides with me. Do I have LOVe for them NO . Do I have trust for them yes. Do I have a close bond to them I would say no not really I do not talk with them in the sense of a communication or the need for such. To say contact them in meditations ext. I know that they are there for me. I know that if I do not LISTEN there will be a lesson coming forth me me. More we have an existance as ONE.

Do you think, or do you know of anyone who feels a romantic type of love for their guide, do you think it's even possible?
YES on YES. (Graphpic details ) not included in what I have heard. Possible YES if that is what one wishes, right or wrong not me place to judge.
Is it just people getting carried away, or could it be that a guide becomes the only reliable trustworthy and loving being in someone's life, especially if someone is lonely or in a bad relationship and depends on their guide more and more? I shouldn't think it would ever be reciprocated.
Like all things obbessions can and do happen. Should it be again not me place to judge on that one. Some do over depend on Guides YES forgetting what GUIDE means as in me understandings it does NOT mean to lead one's life for them....its to offer assistance in the form of Guidance and trust.

I know there is no physical body to love, but you do hear of things like astral sex, (that's a whole other thread.)
There DOES NOT have to be a physical body....that is SO not needed. ( not that I have had first hand GUIDE PLAY). I have though TRIED the Astral Realm of play....I felt that if I as to talk on it openly I should try it on.....walk the walk and talk the talk. I would assume it be the same with a Guide in experience and or feelings. NOT about try me Guides OMG a Black Witch and a Budda Master. ( both pure in nature of such things ).

What are your thoughts on this?

Lynn wrote:

Violet wrote:I imagine you would feel some kind of love for a spirit guide especially if you have a close bond with them and are communicating regularly with them, at very least you'd have respect for them and trust them.
I have two Guides with me. Do I have LOVe for them NO . Do I have trust for them yes. Do I have a close bond to them I would say no not really I do not talk with them in the sense of a communication or the need for such. To say contact them in meditations ext. I know that they are there for me. I know that if I do not LISTEN there will be a lesson coming forth me me. More we have an existance as ONE.
Hi Lynn, I don't chat with mine much, years and years and years ago when I first started out I always imagined that if I got to know a guide I would talk them to death but I don't, as you say there is no need.

Do you think, or do you know of anyone who feels a romantic type of love for their guide, do you think it's even possible?
YES on YES. (Graphpic details ) not included in what I have heard. Possible YES if that is what one wishes, right or wrong not me place to judge.
You're right, it is not for us to judge, but I can't imagine such things would happen with a guide

Is it just people getting carried away, or could it be that a guide becomes the only reliable trustworthy and loving being in someone's life, especially if someone is lonely or in a bad relationship and depends on their guide more and more? I shouldn't think it would ever be reciprocated.
Like all things obbessions can and do happen. Should it be again not me place to judge on that one. Some do over depend on Guides YES forgetting what GUIDE means as in me understandings it does NOT mean to lead one's life for them....its to offer assistance in the form of Guidance and trust.
I totally agree

I know there is no physical body to love, but you do hear of things like astral sex, (that's a whole other thread.)
There DOES NOT have to be a physical body....that is SO not needed. ( not that I have had first hand GUIDE PLAY). I have though TRIED the Astral Realm of play....I felt that if I as to talk on it openly I should try it on.....walk the walk and talk the talk. I would assume it be the same with a Guide in experience and or feelings. NOT about try me Guides OMG a Black Witch and a Budda Master. ( both pure in nature of such things ).

Lynn respect to you for the line I highlighted
What are your thoughts on this?

If the shoe fits wear it for the most part.....too there are limits to what one should ever surrender too. The lost in both the Living and Spirit deserve to find their OWN footings in life.

Lynn

Violet wrote:Hi Lynn, you have a very understanding partner, was the experience good or bad, please only share if you're willing, (no need for lots of detail,) did the experience change you?

Lynn wrote:

Violet wrote:Hi Lynn, you have a very understanding partner, was the experience good or bad, please only share if you're willing, (no need for lots of detail,) did the experience change you?

Hello

Ye so made me laugh " no need for lots of details " OMG Football play by play LOL>>>>>>NO I would always keep with total respects. just didn't want you to feel uncomfy.

First was the experice good or bad, it was experience. Like a "Lab" study I guess. There were no emotional attachements involved . That was the very first and formost level we BOTH wanted to make sure on. That it was treated as a "what can be done" process. There as a GROUP doing this Astral Relations an it as getting grossly out hand and in some situations dangerous. I had done Astral Travel with other's helped one's exit holding me hand in travel for comforts and safetly. I knew there was physical touch possible. I would feel thier hand as they would feel mine. Too being able to Remote Travel one's have been able to see me and me them without the need to share in pictures.
Yes this makes sense to do it this way
When it came to being asked on what all is POSSIBLE and I would say well all one can do in he body in the Physical Plane one can do on the Astral Plane haveing intimate relations came up. I said am sure its possible BUT I have never done more than a thank you peck on the cheek. To get well how can ye say its POSSIBLE if not experiecned . Fair question really.
I didn't realise such things were possible, but you or someone here mentioned a kiss from a spirit being and I have felt this and similar many times, it can't be that much different, I did feel those kisses physically.
When somene I know said they were willing ( with mates persmissions ) to explore this with me we just met and well DID that act. Was it GOOD compared to the only mate I have even known not sure. I felt things yes as did the other. It was an "action". Experiment. Approached as such.

Did I have regrets NO did me mate have issues after it was DONE no. Simply said OK now when ye give a presentation and the SEX qestion comes up ye can say done it and yes it works. He had no issues with it as it was not me physcial body someone had. For me no regrets and no wants for more such experiences.
THat's good to hear Lynn many men would be funny about it, jealous even.
Did it change me, well maybe on some levels it made me more aware of how "actions" done can have devistating effects. Now I am asked if I feel its a level of cheating on one's mate. Here I have to say YES if there is an emotional connection made where there are feeing for the other person, be it lust or deeper. It very much feels real.

Yes I can appreciate the cheating side of it if there is emotional attachment, but just sex with a person or spirit with no emotional attachment I feel is a cold mechanical act.

Lynn

Thank you for discussing this Lynn and with such frankness, I feel I've learned something