Feeling Empathy when Entering different Sites.

OpalMoon wrote:I got banned from one site and it was soooo worth it..     Hubby ended up getting banned too....  

mayflow wrote:

eyeopen wrote:

mayflow wrote:

Auras wrote:

mayflow wrote:

Like Nada and Dreamie and Kaere and Smiler and Silent Whisper? Never heard of it. Oh yeah and Carolyn. If I had heard of it, I would love the poetry section. Still pissed off because they banned one of this forum's members though.

Who banned you?

Don't know, but I am no longer banned there, but someone else who I consider a lovely and wise lady here was permanently banned there and I was temp banned for saying I thought that it was wrong, and I still think it was wrong.

Lol, how did you get unbanned?

I also got banned from there and was going to sign up again, however the person whom banned me was here, I came clean to them and they said . I did say something they didnt like, lol they couldnt even remeber why or what had happened

Im not sure if im allowed back or not.

Well, it was a temporary ban. Not sure if they ban by IP or by name there. I actually had 3 temp bans. 1 for two days, 1 for a week, and 1 for a month.

The one for a week was for asking for another member to be unbanned, so I can't do that again. Sorry, I would if I could.
Your ban would have told you if it was only temporary or not. I still like the forum mostly just because of a few members there, but I do like Violet's forum better.

Auras wrote:

mayflow wrote:

eyeopen wrote:

mayflow wrote:

Auras wrote:
Who banned you?

Don't know, but I am no longer banned there, but someone else who I consider a lovely and wise lady here was permanently banned there and I was temp banned for saying I thought that it was wrong, and I still think it was wrong.

Lol, how did you get unbanned?

I also got banned from there and was going to sign up again, however the person whom banned me was here, I came clean to them and they said . I did say something they didnt like, lol they couldnt even remeber why or what had happened

Im not sure if im allowed back or not.

Well, it was a temporary ban. Not sure if they ban by IP or by name there. I actually had 3 temp bans. 1 for two days, 1 for a week, and 1 for a month.

The one for a week was for asking for another member to be unbanned, so I can't do that again. Sorry, I would if I could.
Your ban would have told you if it was only temporary or not. I still like the forum mostly just because of a few members there, but I do like Violet's forum better.

I guess your a bit pee'd of about getting banned. Violets forums is great and so is spiritual forums. they are both a great forums but i would not say one is better than the other. they are equally good,

SpiritVoices wrote:

Auras wrote:

mayflow wrote:

eyeopen wrote:

mayflow wrote:

Don't know, but I am no longer banned there, but someone else who I consider a lovely and wise lady here was permanently banned there and I was temp banned for saying I thought that it was wrong, and I still think it was wrong.

Lol, how did you get unbanned?

I also got banned from there and was going to sign up again, however the person whom banned me was here, I came clean to them and they said . I did say something they didnt like, lol they couldnt even remeber why or what had happened

Im not sure if im allowed back or not.

Well, it was a temporary ban. Not sure if they ban by IP or by name there. I actually had 3 temp bans. 1 for two days, 1 for a week, and 1 for a month.

The one for a week was for asking for another member to be unbanned, so I can't do that again. Sorry, I would if I could.
Your ban would have told you if it was only temporary or not. I still like the forum mostly just because of a few members there, but I do like Violet's forum better.

I guess your a bit pee'd of about getting banned. Violets forums is great and so is spiritual forums. they are both a great forums but i would not say one is better than the other. they are equally good,

IP numbers can be checked.    Especially if username is changed.....

SpiritVoices wrote:It's a regular way of checking...can also check what country they are coming from....

I'm a mod on another site and by golly,we've copped a few like that... 

Auras wrote:

SpiritVoices wrote:It's a regular way of checking...can also check what country they are coming from....

I'm a mod on another site and by golly,we've copped a few like that... 

You now scare me  

eyeopen wrote:

OpalMoon wrote:I got banned from one site and it was soooo worth it..     Hubby ended up getting banned too....  

Sweet you stick together then, lol.

It is a long story behind what happen.  He was already a member of that forum before we met. He had met a woman on there and had been talking to her for a while. They had made plans to be together and everything. He used to write her poems and send her love graphics expressing his love for her. I used to edit the poems for him and I could see how much he really cared for her. He was going through a messy divorce as was I at the time and this woman came a long in a vulnerable moment and instead of being a friend, she played him.  Anyway, after they met and things began to crumble because he was tired of her BS and lies, he ended it with her. He was hurt but knew she was no good and was a player. I am a very loyal friend. If someone hurts my friends or loved ones, it hurts me. So I joined the forum. It was a forum that pertained to the type of work he does. It was a trucking forum. It is now closed down.  I wrote her a nice little note telling her how I felt about what she did to my friend and exposed her lies and BS.    After that hubby sent her one too!    

So that is how we got banned        I know it was probably best to just let it go and move on, but she had hurt him and I wanted to stand up for my friend.  Not hard to figure out what happened next right?      A year later I became Mrs.!     

OpalMoon wrote:

eyeopen wrote:

OpalMoon wrote:I got banned from one site and it was soooo worth it..     Hubby ended up getting banned too....  

Sweet you stick together then, lol.

It is a long story behind what happen.  He was already a member of that forum before we met. He had met a woman on there and had been talking to her for a while. They had made plans to be together and everything. He used to write her poems and send her love graphics expressing his love for her. I used to edit the poems for him and I could see how much he really cared for her. He was going through a messy divorce as was I at the time and this woman came a long in a vulnerable moment and instead of being a friend, she played him.  Anyway, after they met and things began to crumble because he was tired of her BS and lies, he ended it with her. He was hurt but knew she was no good and was a player. I am a very loyal friend. If someone hurts my friends or loved ones, it hurts me. So I joined the forum. It was a forum that pertained to the type of work he does. It was a trucking forum. It is now closed down.  I wrote her a nice little note telling her how I felt about what she did to my friend and exposed her lies and BS.    After that hubby sent her one too!    



So that is how we got banned        I know it was probably best to just let it go and move on, but she had hurt him and I wanted to stand up for my friend.  Not hard to figure out what happened next right?      A year later I became Mrs.!     

OpalMoon wrote:

eyeopen wrote:

OpalMoon wrote:I got banned from one site and it was soooo worth it..     Hubby ended up getting banned too....  

Sweet you stick together then, lol.

It is a long story behind what happen.  He was already a member of that forum before we met. He had met a woman on there and had been talking to her for a while. They had made plans to be together and everything. He used to write her poems and send her love graphics expressing his love for her. I used to edit the poems for him and I could see how much he really cared for her. He was going through a messy divorce as was I at the time and this woman came a long in a vulnerable moment and instead of being a friend, she played him.  Anyway, after they met and things began to crumble because he was tired of her BS and lies, he ended it with her. He was hurt but knew she was no good and was a player. I am a very loyal friend. If someone hurts my friends or loved ones, it hurts me. So I joined the forum. It was a forum that pertained to the type of work he does. It was a trucking forum. It is now closed down.  I wrote her a nice little note telling her how I felt about what she did to my friend and exposed her lies and BS.    After that hubby sent her one too!    



So that is how we got banned        I know it was probably best to just let it go and move on, but she had hurt him and I wanted to stand up for my friend.  Not hard to figure out what happened next right?      A year later I became Mrs.!     

Auras wrote:

OpalMoon wrote:

eyeopen wrote:

OpalMoon wrote:I got banned from one site and it was soooo worth it..     Hubby ended up getting banned too....  

Sweet you stick together then, lol.

It is a long story behind what happen.  He was already a member of that forum before we met. He had met a woman on there and had been talking to her for a while. They had made plans to be together and everything. He used to write her poems and send her love graphics expressing his love for her. I used to edit the poems for him and I could see how much he really cared for her. He was going through a messy divorce as was I at the time and this woman came a long in a vulnerable moment and instead of being a friend, she played him.  Anyway, after they met and things began to crumble because he was tired of her BS and lies, he ended it with her. He was hurt but knew she was no good and was a player. I am a very loyal friend. If someone hurts my friends or loved ones, it hurts me. So I joined the forum. It was a forum that pertained to the type of work he does. It was a trucking forum. It is now closed down.  I wrote her a nice little note telling her how I felt about what she did to my friend and exposed her lies and BS.    After that hubby sent her one too!    



So that is how we got banned        I know it was probably best to just let it go and move on, but she had hurt him and I wanted to stand up for my friend.  Not hard to figure out what happened next right?      A year later I became Mrs.!     

LOL omg i love your story i wanted it to go on forever. but that will never happen. what you where getting was empathy from your friends of whos feeling where hurt and it made you react. we are all human we have all hurt someones feelings before but as we gradually get over me tend to mature and regret what we did.

yay your married now? can i be godfather of your children 

I was trying hard to condense it to a very short version!    There was a lot that went on to all this and it would take me hours to type it all out!     

I guess you could say I could pick up his emotions quite well considering we lived 500 miles away and several states apart! Different time zones even!   

Yes, we are married now! Have been for a little over 2 years.  I have a 16 year old and hubby has 3 grown kids and has grandkids.  He is quite a bit older than I am so we won't be having any babies.   

Love and friendship knows no distance and knows no age limit. That is what I believe!     

SpiritVoices wrote:

OpalMoon wrote:

eyeopen wrote:

OpalMoon wrote:I got banned from one site and it was soooo worth it..     Hubby ended up getting banned too....  

Sweet you stick together then, lol.

It is a long story behind what happen.  He was already a member of that forum before we met. He had met a woman on there and had been talking to her for a while. They had made plans to be together and everything. He used to write her poems and send her love graphics expressing his love for her. I used to edit the poems for him and I could see how much he really cared for her. He was going through a messy divorce as was I at the time and this woman came a long in a vulnerable moment and instead of being a friend, she played him.  Anyway, after they met and things began to crumble because he was tired of her BS and lies, he ended it with her. He was hurt but knew she was no good and was a player. I am a very loyal friend. If someone hurts my friends or loved ones, it hurts me. So I joined the forum. It was a forum that pertained to the type of work he does. It was a trucking forum. It is now closed down.  I wrote her a nice little note telling her how I felt about what she did to my friend and exposed her lies and BS.    After that hubby sent her one too!    



So that is how we got banned        I know it was probably best to just let it go and move on, but she had hurt him and I wanted to stand up for my friend.  Not hard to figure out what happened next right?      A year later I became Mrs.!     

Bet the other female member felt hurt....I know how that feels.... 

SpiritVoices wrote:Apologies if I upset you,didn't mean to do that!  Just brought back memories of something to me...Mind,I wasn't like your other woman....never been involved in any risky dealings.... 

Oh NO! You are fine!     I understand what you mean.      I don't go around being a bully or anything. This woman has hurt a lot of people and by doing what she is doing she is gonna one day hurt the wrong person and they may flip out or something.  I just vented to her that not only did she hurt my friend (hubby), but she was hurting others too and in the process gonna get hurt herself when Karma comes back and bites her butt!   

OpalMoon wrote:

SpiritVoices wrote:Apologies if I upset you,didn't mean to do that!  Just brought back memories of something to me...Mind,I wasn't like your other woman....never been involved in any risky dealings.... 

Oh NO! You are fine!     I understand what you mean.      I don't go around being a bully or anything. This woman has hurt a lot of people and by doing what she is doing she is gonna one day hurt the wrong person and they may flip out or something.  I just vented to her that not only did she hurt my friend (hubby), but she was hurting others too and in the process gonna get hurt herself when Karma comes back and bites her butt!