Crystal Mon Apr 28, 2014 11:46 am
SpiritVoices wrote:
So true,Skye. I don't often see spirit but hear them. Used to think I was going round the twist,until I received a message from a medium which held information which no one else knew about.
That was it,I was a believer!
I may look like I am playing Devil's Advocate here, but I wanted to discuss this point a bit more deeply. Being a reader I can give information which no-one else knows about but it does not mean that it was from spirit. There is a fine line between information gained psychically from the living sitter or seeker, to that which is given via the spirit world from the deceased. It is often very hard to distinguish the two unless the information is recorded and later pulled apart. This of course is not something that many people want to ever do because it shatters the illusion of a good reading.
I went through a phase of getting as many readings in person and online as I could. It changed my outloook and made me very sceptical of most mediums. Most were fake, in that yes they gave me a reading, but it was not clear evidence from any of my deceased loved ones. They fished and cold read and used blanket terms. The readings were about how I had reacted and touched their lives, how they passed, things that I knew and some things that I didn't but which later I realised I had known and had forgotten or dismissed as trivial.
One 'medium' wanted an item that had belonged to the person I wanted the reading about. I watched her work with others and get most things wrong. One lady of fortyish gave her an old watch. "your grandfather" But no the lady wanted a message from her dearly departed husband, her grandfather was still alive, it was cold reading and assumptions all over.
Now with the internet things get really scarey. I have had my free readings that I have posted or pm'd copied and sold, I have seen other readers sign up to FB and forums as different people to befriend people and gain facts for their readings. It is a minefield.
I still think that true mediums are very very rare, it cannot be taught, but it can be enhanced by training but you either got it or you ain't, and it needs a very very high vibration and energy to attune to the spirit world, and they do the choosing.