skye Thu Jan 26, 2017 10:24 pm
ameliorate wrote:I thought I would share my findings having done a google search (I thought I would ask on this forum first but now felt the need to do such a search). In case anyone else is in a similar situation then this info may be useful... It's from this website..
http://www.denalilove.com/FAQ.html
Q: What is the best time frame to wait to try and contact a loved one who has crossed over?
A: There is no set time for spirits being able to communicate...some take longer than others; some can come through quite clearly within weeks or even days. We used to say 6 months to 1 year, but have discovered that's no longer the rule. Many are coming through very soon after passing. Those who had a long illness or who had Alzheimers prior to passing can come through right away and communicate very well. In fact, it's even possible to speak with people who are still alive, but are suffering from dementia or Alzheimers, in a coma, or about to make their transition.
Of course I realise this info is just from one source, i.e. I have no way of gauging its accuracy but I found nothing else directly relevant.
I have come to realise it doesn't matter how long a person has been in
spirit before they make contact with a loved one. Perhaps it is more about their personalty and character as well as having knowledge about the afterlife which makes a difference. Their religious background and culture, etc will have an effect on what they 'think' will happen or their 'expectations' on what happens. Agnostics expect nothing, therefore for a period of 'time' this is what they will experience.
On a personal level I have relatives who have been on the other side for over 40 years and as yet they have not made contact via a medium, or with me sensing them.
A long while ago I gave a message from a lady who was in hospital with Alzheimers. Her husband was the link to the
spirit communication. Apparently she wanted her family to know that she was in contact with her deceased husband and communicating coherently with him, whereas she couldn't do so here with members of her family. She went on to say how much she was grateful to them and how much she loved them all. I imagine this is made possible because we are Spiritual beings rather than physical beings.