Making contact through the same medium?

Like everyone else, loved ones have their own likes and dislikes. If a loved one doesn't like the look of a medium, or how they put across their messages, then why should they talk to them.
If Aunty Doris disliked certain types of people when she was alive, it would be totally out of character to talk to them from the other side. Their choice of medium is as much evidence of them and their personality as is their message.

Yes I think Topaz is right, though I think sometimes they'll just try anyone who is even slightly open if they are really desperate to get through.

" Is there any reason why our loved ones prefer to make contact or pass on messages through a certain medium? I have noticed that most of any messages I receive seem to come through a friend."

One thought about that would be how many friends do you have who have a similar level of mediumistic 'ability'? If the answer were two or more then it would certainly seem a preference has emerged. If not then perhaps it's just fortuitous that your friend has the necessary attributes?

But if one considers the general picture, which suggests there are comparatively few mediums around anyway, it would seem to me that wannabe discarnate communicators couldn't afford to be picky.

If any medium is available surely the expedient thing would be to use her/him? If there were a choice it's arguable one might get used more than another unless communicators were scrupulous in using each equally!

mac wrote:" Is there any reason why our loved ones prefer to make contact or pass on messages through a certain medium? I have noticed that most of any messages I receive seem to come through a friend."

One thought about that would be how many friends do you have who have a similar level of mediumistic 'ability'? If the answer were two or more then it would certainly seem a preference has emerged. If not then perhaps it's just fortuitous that your friend has the necessary attributes?

But if one considers the general picture, which suggests there are comparatively few mediums around anyway, it would seem to me that wannabe discarnate communicators couldn't afford to be picky.

If any medium is available surely the expedient thing would be to use her/him? If there were a choice it's arguable one might get used more than another unless communicators were scrupulous in using each equally!

I have about three friends who are extremely good mediums,but have had other readings from mediums who have proved to be just as good.
One medium in particular hubby seems to prefer to come through to me,why I do not know.
The evidence is always reliable and can say that the medium has given me much evidence that has been proven beyond doubt that it was my husband.
Thanks Mac.