mac Fri Dec 09, 2011 8:57 am
[quote="feather"]
Hi mac. I'll add my bit here. Peter said he sees you as in 'opposition' sometimes....and I know where he is coming from. I would put it to you this way.
I give my opinion when I answer or add to a thread...as you do and everyone else does too. I disagree. I'm not doubting you when you say you give your opinion but how do you know what others doing? I have opinions on many issues - abortion, capital punishment, the teaching of phonics as part of learning to read, how dyslexia problems are best addressed etc. These are indeed opinions because there isn't a single approach which is right or best in each situation. When I discuss such issues it will be my opinion....
The response that comes from each of us is a personal view point and is neither right or wrong because it is unique to each of us.. Personal viewpoints are fine (as I see 'em) where no authoritative teaching has been given. Take string theory, the multiverse, parallel dimensions, quantum theory - each is a subject on which there is no clear consensus, no authoritative teaching - on each one may express an opinion knowing that there is no better information available. .and comes from our own experiences of life. Sometimes it is difficult to find an agreement about what is meant... but that opinion is worthy of being respected....many people who really have something worth considering just won't add unless this happens. I'm careful always to speak for myself, about myself, and I don't profess to know why others do, or don't, contribute to any discussion/debate. How do you know that, quote: "many people who really have something worth considering just won't add unless this happens"? It's just as easy to say that they don't give voice because they're afraid they won't be able to support what they say - how do we know what others think? I see matters this way. What I can't support or defend I won't speak about UNLESS I say it's my guess or I make it a suggestion. I don't need anyone to respect what I say but I do expect not to be trashed on a personal level (as often happens). I'll accept any amount of challenge to whatever I say but not to my character. Others appear to feel that what they write should not be challenged - I disagree.
And yet so often I get the feeling, when you respond, that...You are the teacher marking the correctness of the work of a class of school children.... works that have no correct answer. And it actually makes me feel discounted....as if my opinion isn't worth anything. I can't change how you feel about me save to say what I have. And when you say "- works that have no correct answer." might it be because you haven't found the answer, perhaps haven't looked in the place where there is an answer? Saying what you do discounts what others have to say, others who may have done their research and found there actually is an answer? What then? Must one pussy-foot because someone else holds an opinion? I think not. All response can be challenged and that goes for mine. I see that as sacrosanct in any open discussion area.
I do agree with you however, that anyone who feels the heat doesn't have to take part in a heavy discussion...very true. You would think that I would have learnt my lesson by now....but I couldn't let this one go without explaining my thoughts. Learned your lesson? What lesson? You've said what you feel and why not? In return I've responded to your words - isn't that what discussion forums are truly about - not just reading without comment?