Rapport with Certain Folks? Why?

Partofme made me think of this subject.

Why do we feel a rapport with certain people and not others?

Not love,not even friendship but a closeness that is hard to explain.

It comes through strongly for no other reason than a feeling of 'having known' these folks before.     Why do we feel comfortable with certain folks and not others.   A 'drawing together'.

Like neighbours in a street.   Some we take to,some we don't.

Sometimes a friendship is started and sometimes not.    Yet the feeling remains again.
I haven't the words to describe what I mean....
Not only friendship but sometimes with bitter enemies.    We try to avoid them but they keep popping up in the same places as we are.
Forums,in the place we live,in the workplace,even on holidays.

What draws us to those people?  

Joan x

 It could be many things that draws us to certain people and not others,for me its my intuition its so strong that i will know straight away.whether i will get on with them or not.maybe you see something in a person that you recognie in yourself etc.
 there are people i think are just pathetic in what they say or do,but i choose to ignore them.

 Namaste

I think with these people we recognise something in them at a deeper level perhaps it is our spirits which recognise each other

Native spirit wrote: It could be many things that draws us to certain people and not others,for me its my intuition its so strong that i will know straight away.whether i will get on with them or not.maybe you see something in a person that you recognie in yourself etc.
 there are people i think are just pathetic in what they say or do,but i choose to ignore them.

 Namaste

Intuition,the word I was looking for today....Thanks Carron!

Violet wrote:I think with these people we recognise something in them at a deeper level perhaps it is our spirits which recognise each other

Something I never thought of,Violet.    Have met in Spirit or soul mates?

Not necessarily recognising them because they have met before Joanie, just recognising a spirit which is like themselves

Violet wrote:Not necessarily recognising them because they have met before Joanie, just recognising a spirit which is like themselves

I get you,Violet...I must remember that,that is something I have never thought of before......

True

The only people I ignore are snobs

What about the theory of our guides bringing us together to learn from one another?  Support, ect.

Crazy to sort out, for sure.  Like the member with the father and the sweater.  What caught her attention was the sweater.  Guides may give us visual similarities to grasp our attention.

Its up to us to recognize it and carry it forward.

I believe there are groups of souls.  Soul mates are not necessarily a love couple but a group who belong the same 'clan' who gravitate towards each other in life and in spirit....

There is no doubt....that certain souls know each other.............

and nothing can stop that "gathering".......it can be stalled and long to happen.....but the gathering does happen

Mr.Whitmore wrote:True

The only people I ignore are snobs

I don't like snobs either......!

RavenMoon wrote:We See Them as Kindred Spirits?......

same nature/personality? or

because we have seen something in them that perhaps we are lacking in ourselves?..


Could be many reasons as to why - but the ultimate could be that there is a reason for that connection, Good or bad.

A sort drawing together.....don't plan it,just happens...

SpiritVoices wrote:

Mr.Whitmore wrote:True

The only people I ignore are snobs

I don't like snobs either......!

I LOVE snobs!  

I believe it depends on the connection good or bad etc.  

I think one thing you all missed out, is God Goddess,

We are all apart of her, him, them, however you look at things.

Therefore what we feel see experience with twins, soul mates etc is love, connection etc, theirfore where does this come from?

when we smile we feel something in our hearts, laughter joy where does this come from, the love connection I mean?

I believe the love connection is the god goddess within all, that is what we miss, its what we love, its what we are attracted too. regardless whether we know it or not.

eg you can feel that connection to others ok, if you ever meet some one that is a real person of God I mean pure, that which you never see feel that whom is high in vibrations etc, I believe it is connection to Goddess, that we are attracted to.

Not sure about bad connections lol

There are bad connections beside good.    It is up to us to find that out and put things right....

Yeh and sometimes its not really possible, lol. Some peopel are just that way, i dont like to think this way but I am in a situation and cant see a good way out of it, soem people whom are too ignorant just cant be taught the right way. Also sometimes when soemthing is wrong but works for one they just dont care.

It's all about vibrations. Energy vibrates, and we are energy, and we vibrate, all on a different level. No one vibrates exactly on the same level as the next, but if the vibrations are somewhat close, we feel a connection.

I see you have the 'three' zeros there for connection.

How would you interpret that,Detlef?

I can understand about the energies....

You saying that all soul mates twins vibrate the same frequency?

I would say more than just an attraction.   Nothing to do with the body but the inner self?    A soul attraction?    Like in spirit,to call it a 'soul kinship' to use my own words for it.

SpiritVoices wrote:I see you have the 'three' zeros there for connection.

How would you interpret that,Detlef?

000 - Who are you connected to?
This number will indicate, you are operating entirely through your higher self.


In simple terms this means, your actions are initiated by your higher self.
For this to happen, one needs to have a strong connection to the higher self.
The higher self is always a certain level of consciousness within one's Self.
And in general, the higher self does not interfere in the spirits development during a lifetime.
Usually this is the "job" of the guide, what I call the No.1  guide.
The higher self only comes into the picture, takes over the guiding right at the end of one's incarnation cycle.

Don't think I'm up to that standard yet,Detlef......
Maybe one day....

How can we tell the difference between the guidance of our higherselves, guides angels etc? other spirits ?