Medium worship

It seems some people can't get through life without a medium to advise them, some get hooked on messages from their loved ones and constantly want more, more, more, i've not experienced this myself but have seen others practically stalked and pestered for 'messages' what would be your advice to the medium and the medium worshipper?

Probably wrong terminology but i'm sure you'll get my drift.  

I'm not a medium but can understand what an experienced medium must feel.   
Mediums cannot produce messages from the spirit world 'just like that' as Tommy Cooper used to say...  

It is up to spirit to decide whether to give those messages that we desparately feel we need sometimes.   It also depends on the spirit person themselves whether they want to give a certain message to a certain person...

  Any experienced medium worth their salt would not give messages to the same person day after day ,week after week,some people use mediums as a councellor especially after a berevement, because they want contact ,its up to the medium to tell the said person to speak to a councellor first.but some just see money signs they are the ones you should stay away from.

Namaste