Amberfields wrote: ameliorate wrote:
I am confused by this post. You say you find it hard to believe in free will saying you have had close to 1000 dreams come to pass...? Can you elucidate on this? Are you talking of lucid dreaming? If so, then this is using our will to control/shape a dream. If not, then we are not conscious when dreaming so it is not an occasion to use our free will.
To be able to see a future outcome does not show how freewill may have influenced it does it?
I transformed my fatalistic mindset by embracing freewill which has now culminated into my having a positive attitude/outlook now hardwired into me, going on now for some 4 decades! Never looked back! It's a blessing.
Also psychologists know that - for instance - stress is not the situation but our reaction to the situation. This allows us to use freewill to influence our reactions, e.g. instead of being upset and frustrated due to having missed a bus, we can nip the emotion in the bud (rather than letting it linger) and, with awareness, choose to take a more beneficial direction. For example, by changing gear we might notice our surroundings more (e.g. drivers, wondering about what might be their lifestyle from what we can glean about them visually - quite fun!) or choose the time to try and sort out some niggling problem. Endless possibilities.
Hi,
Well, when i am dreaming the future, I am objective in nature. I went through a period of a few dreams where I did try to change the outcome. For example I once saw a little boy fall off of a water slide and in the dream I kept yelling to him, warning him not to go up, but he did and a few days later I happen to come across information of him dying.
Or this example:
8 July 2015Fight in the locker room.Heard Cisco. Then I became aware of basketball teams, not sure which one or what kind of sport team for sure. Men fighting, one man eyes on me during the fight. He had blood on his jaw, broken bad.Tried to stop it. End dream.
Not a dream
11 August 2015
NY Jets locker room, fight. Geno Smith. Broken Jaw, dispute over 600 dollars. Enkempali punched him.
Also Tom said the word cisco on the phone for work while I was found this information.
So with this, it appears to me that my attempt at "free will" has no effect on the outcome. Perspective of joy is always good to have if things get bothersome in any regard. Objectivity takes away emotion. Perhaps our reactions to situations is our free will, but the order of events will always be the same....just thoughts coming. In no way trying offend your belief system that works for you.