Hi everyone,
I haven't introduced myself yet or filled out my profile (which I will do quite soon), however, I wanted to get some opinions on an issue that's heavy in my life right now that I'd like to use my pendulum for in concerning the issue. The thing is, it's a relationship and there's a lot of heavy emotion involved. Along with that, I'm curious to know if anyone thinks you can dowse the answer to a question that your intuitive mind couldn't possibly know the solid answer to... The questions I would like to ask are (Note: I've just put "he" instead of his name for privacy reasons:
Is "he" ignoring me?
Does "he" still consider himself to be in a relationship with me?
Has "he" started seeing another girl?
Has "he" had sexual relations with another woman since he's moved?
Does "he" miss me?
Does "he" feel bad about giving me the cold shoulder?
Will "he" call soon?
Will "his" reaction to my pregnancy be anger or upset?
Will "his" reaction to my pregnancy be happiness and joy?
When "he" finds out about the miscarriage will he be relieved and overjoyed?
When "he" finds out about the miscarriage will "he" be sad or in mourning?
Will we ever date again?
Obviously this was a horrible relationship and not something I ever intend to go back to, but at the same time, I can't help but wonder, sometimes even obsess over these questions. Do you think it's possible to dowse answers to these unknowns, and if so, would I need to achieve an EXTREMELY detached mind in order to not influence the pendulum (perhaps even close my eyes while a friend records the answers for me to look at later). I've never really delved into relationship drama with my pendulum before and I'm not familiar with how accurate it is or even if it's worth trying at all. ...Any opinions?
P.S. It's not so much the questions I need answering to - my question here is more about whether it is POSSIBLE to use the pendulum for questions about other people...
I haven't introduced myself yet or filled out my profile (which I will do quite soon), however, I wanted to get some opinions on an issue that's heavy in my life right now that I'd like to use my pendulum for in concerning the issue. The thing is, it's a relationship and there's a lot of heavy emotion involved. Along with that, I'm curious to know if anyone thinks you can dowse the answer to a question that your intuitive mind couldn't possibly know the solid answer to... The questions I would like to ask are (Note: I've just put "he" instead of his name for privacy reasons:
Is "he" ignoring me?
Does "he" still consider himself to be in a relationship with me?
Has "he" started seeing another girl?
Has "he" had sexual relations with another woman since he's moved?
Does "he" miss me?
Does "he" feel bad about giving me the cold shoulder?
Will "he" call soon?
Will "his" reaction to my pregnancy be anger or upset?
Will "his" reaction to my pregnancy be happiness and joy?
When "he" finds out about the miscarriage will he be relieved and overjoyed?
When "he" finds out about the miscarriage will "he" be sad or in mourning?
Will we ever date again?
Obviously this was a horrible relationship and not something I ever intend to go back to, but at the same time, I can't help but wonder, sometimes even obsess over these questions. Do you think it's possible to dowse answers to these unknowns, and if so, would I need to achieve an EXTREMELY detached mind in order to not influence the pendulum (perhaps even close my eyes while a friend records the answers for me to look at later). I've never really delved into relationship drama with my pendulum before and I'm not familiar with how accurate it is or even if it's worth trying at all. ...Any opinions?
P.S. It's not so much the questions I need answering to - my question here is more about whether it is POSSIBLE to use the pendulum for questions about other people...