Arguments in the forum

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Yet again new members are being driven away, so I am now banning personal arguing, if you have LEGITIMATE complaints about other members then you should contact me, privately. I cannot be here 24 hours a day so please be patient if I don't get back to you straight away. When I get time I will be removing offensive posts, I hoped being relaxed here would make for a more pleasant atmosphere for all, it is obviously not working out that way.

i understand too, what i had is gone, what i have now is more important, this time nobody can take that away from me, its hard to explain what really happens in our life in detail, and only leaves me to deal with that on a level only i can understand, maybe others understand, though they know sympathy isnt always the answer, that can only make me softer, once somebody said to me "this may seem dark but in time you will go through this and see some light and maybe be better off than you was before" i know in that moment i was underestimated, but its good to know that somebody expects me to be stronger also

Spiral wrote:i understand too, what i had is gone, what i have now is more important, this time nobody can take that away from me, its hard to explain what really happens in our life in detail, and only leaves me to deal with that on a level only i can understand, maybe others understand, though they know sympathy isnt always the answer, that can only make me softer, once somebody said to me "this may seem dark but in time you will go through this and see some light and maybe be better off than you was before" i know in that moment i was underestimated, but its good to know that somebody expects me to be stronger also

You have a strong and beautiful spirit within you. You have learned much.