Here is a forum specifically created for parents who have lost children, the forum is very new so please be patient, if you know anyone who has lost a child and may be interested the link is below, I can personally assure you that this forum belongs to someone who lost a child and wanted to offer other's support and a place to talk:
http://zekeyrainbow.phpbb3now.com/index.php
ZekeyRainbow
http://zekeyrainbow.phpbb3now.com/index.php
ZekeyRainbow
