My older brother died tragically at the age of 30 in 2011. After he died & before he died I met a friend of his who was in the military with him. He always had a crush on me & I liked him too, but I was kinda scared & young. We lost touch, he married had a child, I married had 2 kids, etc. After my brother died, I contacted him, his family came to the funeral & we were in touch regularly. He has been helping me, supporting me, etc., in getting justice for my brother because we all believe he was murdered. He has just been fantastic. I have always had a soft spot for him in my heart. He was telling me of a tattoo he was getting in memory of him, etc. Last week, I remember having a dream of him. It felt odd like why is he here, he shouldn't be here. I just remember that feeling. I remember seeing him and my brother. I was like my brother is here, but why are you? I was happy though to see him in my dreams, because like I said I have always had a soft spot for him. Then my 4 year old woke me up and it took a few minutes because as I was in my dream I hear her say momma can I sleep with you, momma can I sleep with you then finally she was like mommmmmmmmmmaaaaaa can I sleep with you ugh and I woke up. I said of course, get into bed. I looked at my clock and it was 2:00 a.m. Then I tried my hardest to get back to sleep to my dream to see him again. I didnt dream anymore, but got up a few hours later to work. I work from home. I scanned on Facebook. I saw his wife updated her profile picture to her and him on their wedding. I just saw the pic & smiled because I remembered seeing him in my dream and was like aww look at him. I sure do think he is a cutie. Then I got off Facebook continued working, fixed breakfast, sent my hubby of to work, woke up the kids, etc. Then around 7 am, I got on Facebook & found out he died at 11:00 pm. I was soooo upset, sooo shocked. He was 32. I could NOT explain it. I miss him so much. I feel like I missed my chance with him like I thought he would be with me forever, like a friend ya know. He was/is one of my dear dear friends who I talked about my brother with & it made me feel my bro was still here too with him in my life. I cannot explain it. I just feel a connection with him so much more now than when he was alive. He is literally like family to me and when I found out he died, til this day (it has not even been a week) I have been extremely upset. I miss him so very much. He left a wife, a 5 year old son, brother, sister, parents, MANY friends.
My question is, isn't it odd he was in my dream and it appeared to be it was after he died since he died at 11:00 p.m. and I was dreaming of him when my daughter woke me up at 2:00 a.m.
My mother woke up around 1:30 or 2:00 am and saw 2 figures in her room and one put his hand on his head and saluted her or something.
What does this all mean? Thank you in advance.
What does this mean.
My question is, isn't it odd he was in my dream and it appeared to be it was after he died since he died at 11:00 p.m. and I was dreaming of him when my daughter woke me up at 2:00 a.m.
My mother woke up around 1:30 or 2:00 am and saw 2 figures in her room and one put his hand on his head and saluted her or something.
What does this all mean? Thank you in advance.
What does this mean.
