Cursing My Father

Auras wrote:Not. Really. Why do you all think curses are bad.



As a blessing is not always good as words are subjective. Why is it negative that I want to do something to my father that he's done to me before.

If I do this to him this would be karma for him? So I don't see a problem.

Auras wrote:Thinking about casting a curse on my father for what he put me through. Give him a taste of what it feels like to lonely. Hurt. Nothing worth living for.


Like a test for him. So he'll soon realizes.

Many of use know I'm an experienced spell caster.

But. Also. I've never casted a curse before. They are hard to spells to do successfully. so I need to be careful, other wise it can backfire and curse me instead.

Detlef wrote:

Auras wrote:Thinking about casting a curse on my father for what he put me through. Give him a taste of what it feels like to lonely. Hurt. Nothing worth living for.


Like a test for him. So he'll soon realizes.

Many of use know I'm an experienced spell caster.

But. Also. I've never casted a curse before. They are hard to spells to do successfully. so I need to be careful, other wise it can backfire and curse me instead.

It is your choice to be different or the same.
If you choose to retaliate or try to, you are no different.
If you like to try some spells or curses, try them on me. I am sure I can proof to you they don't work.  
On the other hand why go around and advertise it, if you are serious.

Auras wrote:Mayflow.

Its not negative. Because I want to do a spell where I put him in my situation.

So, therefor it's not negative.

mayflow wrote:

Auras wrote:Mayflow.

Its not negative. Because I want to do a spell where I put him in my situation.

So, therefor it's not negative.

Turnabout may be fair play. What it seems like to me is you want your dad to be able to feel how you think he has made you feel, to help him to heal whatever his own wounds are so he can become a better and happier person.

Was I close to your intentions?

Yes

blackbirdrising wrote:You're an experienced spell caster. Then you know that everything you send out comes back on you three fold.  You think your father isn't eaten away on the inside by every wrong decision, and bad choice he's ever made? Speaking as a parent, I know he does. I also know my children hate me for my mistakes/bad choices, and they wish for me to suffer because of them.

You're an experienced spell caster. Then you know that everything you send out comes back on you three fold.  You think your father isn't eaten away on the inside by every wrong decision, and bad choice he's ever made? Speaking as a parent, I know he does. I also know my children hate me for my mistakes/bad choices, and they wish for me to suffer because of them.

Okay, so you know you have the talent of casting, then you should also know that what you cast out is what will come back. "Just like a boomerang."

Am I alone in feeling some discomfort that a young man who has said what's copied below now writes in such a way?

"My job in life is to work for spirit and provide validation that their is life after death. I do not need you to believe, all I ask is that yo keep an open mind. I've proved to myself that their is another realm where spirits will dwell, now its my turn to prove to you people that your loved ones/friends are still with you."

He also once used to refer to himself as a medium and has given some kind of readings to members and others.  I find it hard to reconcile that a self-professed medium, one who appeared to have some interest in Spiritualism at one point, should now be writing about casting a curse.  Mediums  don't cast curses.

Now I know what this young man has told us about himself and I feel desperately sorry about the situation he's now in. Although I don't know what it's like for him I can understand the hurt and the hate he feels and I don't condemn them.  I'm sure I'd feel similar in such circumstances.

But if he is to become the person he's told us he wants to become then he desperately needs the help of counsellors to get him through the months and years ahead and this website, these forums, are not the place in my view to look for such support.  

I hope he will seek the help he needs and that in the new year ahead his life may be less troubled than it is right now.  Then, eventually, may emerge a more rounded and more settled person who can focus on the way ahead more positively.

That's what I hope for auras.