Grandfather Trying to Prepare me for another death?

I desperately need some help. My loving and amazing grandfather passed away Nov 28th 2013. For the first few weeks after his passing, I felt his presence immensely. Even a fee hours prior, his soul way trying to get my attention in multiple ways. The night he passed (I had a feeling it was coming..) I used an app called 'sleep talk' and it would only record if it heard something. At 3:56am, all of a sudden you hear rustling in the bed, almost like I'm having an uneasy sleep. Then all of a sudden you hear 'wake up' from a voice that is clearly not mine, and I responded by saying 'what happened.... Oh nono....' At 4:28am my uncle mags me, letting me know about the sad new... And at 4:38am I suddenly wake up to read it. The next day, I found out that at passed at about 4am. For a few weeks following that instance, the feeling of spirit in my basement apartment was so extremely intense, I was terrified. I could see shadows and light at the sides of my eyes, and my Yorkie would try to catch little beams of light zipping past her. I could see all these things with my bare eyes as well as when recorded.

Okay, so now that you have a brief understanding of everything going on, I need help! Lol
So, about 2.5 weeks ago I had a dream that was the most incredible dream I have ever had. Below are the notes I jotted down in my phone shortly after I had it:

**He was concerned about how we were handling it all. His energy was purply blue, in the shape of an orb, I was Able to see his face within his energy/orb. It would come really close to my face and would appear quite large, and when it zoomed out, was much smaller. Could smell him in my room from his last days. He wanted me to pass on messages which I can't remember, should have written them down immediately after, it's now been aprox. 5 min. Was trying to tell family members how he was feeling and trying to make them listen. knew I was dreaming, wanted to make sure I was able to talk to him, lucid dreaming? Also strong buzzing in my ear, was quite loud and also fluctuating. Nana, i think may have passed shortly after bc I was sitting in a funeral home looking over at her at the front,, but not 100% sure. And I also knew his presence was there at the funeral home as well. **

Then a few days ago I also dreamed:

**My grandmother was outside her house with a noose around her neck, sometimes standing around, and I think at knee point, from a tree.. But she was alive, and I was trying to cut it off, and my grandfather kept poking his head out just to chit chat, and we were trying to keep it from him so he wouldn't worry... And then soon after I was able to cut it off, but not sure how**

Is this my grandfather giving me warning dreams?? It was so strange and bothered me that I would ever have dreams like the last one. 
If anyone could help me, I'd really appreciate it.

Lady20 wrote:After all these most recent experiences, I admit I do envision heaven differently, still in a positive way, but differently.. And also knowing he will be there to greet me when I go there as well, is extremely comforting, making it less scary. However,could there be a slight chance that maybe all these experiences and maybe also the dream be from a spirit other than my grandfather? A spirit trying to disguise itself as him trying to manipulate me? That terrifies me even more, just the thought of it. 
And I'm sure it's common for people to experience strange phenomenon after someone close passes.. But the presence I had been feeling was more frightening than comforting, and I'm sure if it was my grandfathers spirit and he felt how uncomfortable it made me, he would have stopped immediately... When my other grandparents or relatives passed, these things never happened.. So it's quite strange.
however if it is in fact my grandfather visiting me and letting me know he's ok, I'd love for them to happen a lot more often... But they really have happened rarely, and only that one time was it as lucid and amazing.

Lady20 wrote:[color:a608=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]After reading your response, I feel it could also be that as well... Maybe, even though she tries to put up a strong, tuff front, subconsciously,I know and feel there's something wrong. She spent her marriage taking care of him, until the end... They're love was like a movie, constantly holding hands no matter where they were.. Now, she definitely feels more alone, with not much to fill up her day. The first dream, I absolutely know 110% was a visitation from my grandfather, iv never had a dream like that before. He was so insistent on getting his message across, even tho I can't remember what it was. But something tells me it could have something to do with the end of the dream where I was sitting at a funeral home, knowing my grandmother was at the front. I also knew my grandfathers presence was there as well... Between that, and the strange dream with the noose around my grandmothers neck and keeping it from my grandfather while I try to cut her free, while she's fully alive and normal the entire time, just makes me think the worst. That dream didn't feel lucid at all, not like a visitation, just bizarre. 

[color:a608=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]I've now come to the reality, that I'm sensitive to things. I have been my entire life, but up until recently, it's never been like how it's been during these past weeks. Could there be a chance that I really am able to tap into people's feelings and emotions in a dream? Or otherwise? I mean, like even day to day, if an ambulance passes me by, or I drive by an accident, or someone's shopping for clothing at my job for a funeral for they're passed grandfather etc, I can't help but get emotional, like my breaks for the other person and their condition or situation. 

[color:a608=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]We've always visited with my grandparents often, every few days actually unless something like the weather Etc stopped us. They're like parents to me, I've always loved them more, lol iv told them many times! Such unconditional, and genuine love... When not visiting my grandmother, I'm going to make sure during our phone conversations to make sure she's on top of her medications, eating etc... And just see how she's doing. Although, I don't trust she'll give me an honest answer in regards to her emotional state,she was always the one to keep strong and not shed a tear... My grandfather was more of the other way... Just very gentle and soft hearted. 
[color:a608=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]I am extremely worried, I've read about how when one spouse passes, the other one passes soon after from a broken heart.. 

[color:a608=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]This is all so conflicting.